"Play is our brain's favorite way of learning"-Unknown-                
"Play builds the kind of free-and-easy, try-it-out, do-it-yourself character that our future needs" -James L. Hymes Jr.-
When I grew up in the 70's play was something we did on a regular basis. I learned so much by simply playing. I became a little creative child drawing things I saw outside, I loved riding my big wheel pretending it was a car. I can recall me and some of my cousins riding them to the park down the street from where we lived to race around the track. Sometimes I would take my doll, and pack up my tea set with some water in a mason jar to have a tea party at the park. We pretended to be at fancy places where rich people went to have tea. Those days were so special and the difference in play then and play now is that we could actually go without an adult because everyone knew each other and if we did anything wrong the neighbors would tell our parents or spanked us themselves. My parents and grandparents encouraged us to go outside while they cleaned the house and cooked; we wasn't allowed in the kitchen while food was being prepared. The other difference is that now so many children stay inside instead of playing because technology has taken over with video games coming out with new games monthly, facebook, instagram, snapchat is like the gossip channel. Children at a young age have set up all these accounts to see what their friends are talking about and posting all sorts of pictures often. Technology also has to be monitored because there are some predators out there who will send messages to children girl or boy to see if they can get a response. Throughout my life play has made me who I am today, I've learned so much from playing, I know how to pretend by changing my voice to be someone else; I taught myself how to ride a big wheel and bicycle. While playing with dolls I learned how to change clothes and comb hair. On the sketch pad I learned how to spell because I would practice writing sentences and spell different words. Jacks was how I started counting fast, adding, subtracting all from throwing a ball up in the air while grabbing one then to jacks at a time and so on until I picked up all the jacks without touching another one. Play has been a try it out, do it yourself part of my entire life. In order to learn to do something we try it out first and then soon it can be done by yourself without anyone's assistance. Play lets you be free to build, grow, develop and learn all those wonderful things that will be essential in your day to day life. 




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ReplyDeleteMonica,
ReplyDeleteThank you for the post! I can relate to playing all day outside. It was a safer place when we were younger. I admit that I am very protective of my children when they want the freedom to play throughout the neighborhood. We live about four blocks from a city park. I am extremely nervous to send them there alone, even as they are getting much older now. We talk often about stranger danger and what to do in certain situations. This is a huge roadblock with play for today's children. I feel parents are busier, also. My mom was able to take us to the park and play more with us. She was able to stay at home when we were young. I know it is important to have time with my children and I make that time but I know many families who use electronics to pacify their children as they feel their children are "playing" on their devices. I agree that electronics can be just as scary as playing out in the public. Parents MUST monitor and limit their children as they use electronic devices.
I feel that fantasy play is missing with today's children. Many children do not know how to make up/imagine new play situations. It is hard for them to dream up new roles or pretend. Many children look for rules and defined roles to play. I worry about the effects this will have on the future.
Melissa
Monica we have some similarities when connecting to play as children. I absolutely loved playing with jacks, they were one of my favorite toys. You know it does take a village to raise a child and in the 1970s and some 1980s this were prevalent, but not in these days. This is a new world full of technology and there’s nothing wrong with this, but families and children would benefit more if they would become more physical and back to the basics and that is learning through play.
ReplyDeleteMonica,
ReplyDeleteI like you quote about play as learning. We gain so much knowledge through play about ourselves and how to relate with our friends, family, and community.Play was more of a way of exercise back then because we were always active but today they is so much a high rate of obesity with our youth today.
OMG Monica,
ReplyDeleteI remember playing with my etch sketch. I tried so hard to make the lines curve and make faces. I was horrible with that thing. I love your first quote "Play is our brains favorite way of learning. I watch my son with his dad and his Papa. they are always outside working on projects but my son sees it as playing. He has learned the names of tools that I didn't even know existed. Thank you for this post.